For The Men
Men of Faith, Strength, and Courage
This page is to encourage, equip, and rebuild men who have been discouraged, ashamed, and have had their self esteem torn down while trying to conceive with their wives. I personally experienced shame, grief, jealousy, and sometimes bitterness only to find out that I was still childless with all of these extra, heavy, and burdensome emotions. This is the time where we want to be left alone, we want to be silent, we don't want to be bothered, inside we are angry, and we definitely don't feel like talking about it. In all honesty, this is the time when we need to be strong, we need to use every ounce of faith that we feel we have left until that faith grows to makes room for more faith. Because of this strong desire to bring forth a child we are often blinded by the fact that our wives need us and they can not, and should not walk this journey alone. Our suppressed and hidden emotions can lead to confrontation, which can lead to division, and ultimately destruction in a marriage. Stay focused, and stay connected to the source, the great I AM who is our foundation. Always remember, if the foundation crumbles, the house will fall and be destroyed.
Prayer against Spiritual attack over male reproductive areas.
April 2, 2018 Peter Scott
Father, in the name of your only begotten son Yeshua the messiah Jesus Christ, I am petitioning you as my Yehova Rapha, my healer, my doctor, and my all in all. Lord, even as I recite this prayer, do a new thing in me, in my mind, in my body, in my spirit, and in every area where it's needed the most. I speak life over my prostate, my testicles, my semen, my scrotum, my sperm cells, and my penis. I command every area to be healed now in Jesus name. Every word that the doctor's, family, or even friends may have spoken over me that is not in alignment with your purpose or will over my life, I break it's power in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. Whatever the source is that may have caused this infirmity, I break your power over me and I command complete restoration and healing in it's place in Jesus name. Father, your word say's that you were wounded for my transgressions, you were bruised for my iniquities, the chastisement of my peace was upon you, and with your stripes I AM HEALED!!! Every demonic spiritual attack, witchcraft, or any dark or black magic that may have played a role in my marriage, or my reproduction, I command you to loose me and let me go. Your time is up NOW!!! I come out of agreement with you and your assignment, you have no more power over me. Any contract that I may have allowed between us knowingly or unknowingly I break it and I destroy it with the Blood of Jesus. I am in a new contract with my Lord and savior Jesus Christ. Lord Jesus, I give you complete permission and access to my body, my reproductive organs and especially my heart. I want to be filled with more of you, more of your glory so that through it I may help others. But how can I help others if I myself are not totally healed. I need you father. Do a spiritual surgery on me RIGHT NOW, Thank you in advance, Thank you for my healing, thank you for my deliverance, and thank you for my piece of mind.
I've given God EVERYTHING. What more does he want from me in order for me and my wife to have children?
April 2, 2018 Peter Scott
Have you ever thought to yourself and said, "What more could God possibly want from me? Am I doing something wrong? Did I miss something? Did I mess up somewhere? I pay my tithes and offerings, I'm faithful to my wife, I fast, I pray, I've just about done everything that I could think of and still I have no children by her, maybe i'm not supposed to have children by her, maybe it's just not the right timing. But wait....It has to be the right timing because I've been waiting for years. Men, let me ask you this. Have you stopped and took the time to think about what God wants? Just as bad as you want a child, God want's one to. Let me explain, Yes he has his only begotten son Jesus son who died for you and me. Just as a seed is sown in the earth and produces many fruit after it's kind during the harvest, God in his infinite wisdom sacrificed and sowed his only son in the earth so that he can reap many son's and daughters. You are his creation, and he sowed his son so that he can have YOU!!! He wants YOU!!! He needs YOU!!!He needs your time, he needs your energy, he needs your mind, and most importantly he needs your heart. Right now, your time, energy, mind, and heart is focused on having a child. If you want and desire a child that bad just imagine how God feels about you. Yes...YOU!!! He wants YOU that bad. The same amount of time and effort you put into wanting these things put that same effort into wanting HIS will. Some of you may feel or have felt that your spouse wants and desires a baby more than she wants and desires you!!! How does that make you feel? Now think about this, God feels that you want and desire a baby more than you want and desire him, how do you think that makes him feel? I personally believe that if we give God what he needs and deserves which is our complete devotion, attention, and our all and all to him, he will do the same for us. He knows you should have children, remember when he created man that was one of his commands, that we are to be fruitful and multiply. It's his command, he hasn't forgotten, he knows this.... Now that you know THIS, what are you going to do? My advice/suggestion would be to repent, let God know how apologetic you are for neglecting him by giving your all to something else or someone else and not to him. We all know that God is a jealous God, and whatever we place before him he will destroy or take it away. But it's still for our own good. Love your wive's, honor them, and encourage them, because whether you know it or not, they look to us for strength. Whether they want to admit it or not. You may not understand it or agree, but this will help teach us patience, humility, and will give us the wisdom that we will need to pass on to our children when it comes to the heart of God and what he desires.
Prayer after/During Conception
April 7, 2018 Peter Scott
(Lay hands on Spouse stomach and recite upon rising, and before going to bed)
My father, and my King, I petition you today as a King in your kingdom. You have opened my wife’s womb and has caused her to conceive. Thank you father. I ask that you bless and strengthen my wife’s womb, bless and strengthen this baby that you have given us. Bless and strengthen the amniotic fluid, bless and strengthen the amniotic sac, bless and strengthen the yolk sac, bless and strengthen the umbilical cord, bless and strengthen the cervix, bless and strengthen the placenta, bless and strengthen each and every area of this pregnancy that you have given us, and provide everything hat this baby needs for optimum growth, strength, and development, as you are forming this baby in it’s mother’s womb. I cover this pregnancy with the powerful blood of Yeshuah the messiah, Jesus Christ, and I cover this baby (these babies, if twins are conceived), with the blood of Yeshuah the messiah Jesus Christ. I decree and declare Psalms 91 over this pregnancy and over this baby which say’s…..
He that dwelleth in the secret place of the most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty.
2 I will say of the Lord, He is my refuge and my fortress: my God; in him will I trust.
3 Surely he shall deliver thee from the snare of the fowler, and from the noisome pestilence.
4 He shall cover thee with his feathers, and under his wings shalt thou trust: his truth shall be thy shield and buckler.
5 Thou shalt not be afraid for the terror by night; nor for the arrow that flieth by day;
6 Nor for the pestilence that walketh in darkness; nor for the destruction that wasteth at noonday.
7 A thousand shall fall at thy side, and ten thousand at thy right hand; but it shall not come nigh thee.
8 Only with thine eyes shalt thou behold and see the reward of the wicked.
9 Because thou hast made the Lord, which is my refuge, even the most High, thy habitation;
10 There shall no evil befall thee, neither shall any plague come nigh thy dwelling.
11 For he shall give his angels charge over thee, to keep thee in all thy ways.
12 They shall bear thee up in their hands, lest thou dash thy foot against a stone.
13 Thou shalt tread upon the lion and adder: the young lion and the dragon shalt thou trample under feet.
14 Because he hath set his love upon me, therefore will I deliver him: I will set him on high, because he hath known my name.
15 He shall call upon me, and I will answer him: I will be with him in trouble; I will deliver him, and honour him.
16 With long life will I satisfy him, and shew him my salvation.
I decree and declare Psalms 121 which say’s….
I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help.
2 My help cometh from the Lord, which made heaven and earth.
3 He will not suffer thy foot to be moved: he that keepeth thee will not slumber.
4 Behold, he that keepeth Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep.
5 The Lord is thy keeper: the Lord is thy shade upon thy right hand.
6 The sun shall not smite thee by day, nor the moon by night.
7 The Lord shall preserve thee from all evil: he shall preserve thy soul.
8 The Lord shall preserve thy going out and thy coming in from this time forth, and even for evermore.
I also decree and declare Psalms 23 over this baby and pregnancy which say’s..
The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.
2 He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.
3 He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake.
4 Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.
5 Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over.
6 Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever.
Wait... You're fighting against the wrong one!!!
April 7th 2018 Peter Scott
Wait… Your fighting against the wrong one!!!
In a Kingdom, a King must have Citizens and subjects. The Bible declares that in the want of the people is the destruction of the prince (Proverbs 14:28). That means without people, his kingdom cannot stand. This reminds me of when Jesus said to the scribes and Pharisees, a kingdom divided against itself cannot stand, and if Satan cast out Satan how can his kingdom stand? (Matthew 12:26) Let that sink in for a minute before I expound on this much needed topic. Without People, A king cannot reign. Who will he reign over? Who will upkeep the territory? Who will fight the wars? Who will gather in the harvest in it’s due time? That’s why the Lord of creation needs you!!! Not only does he need you, but he need for you to be fruitful and to multiply. Here’s why. As I stated earlier A King needs one to upkeep the territory. We are the kings of the earth and the Lord needs your seed to occupy, build, and transform this world into a replica of Heaven as he originally intended. The good thing about this kingdom is that when it comes to battles HE fights them. Our Job is to pray, petition, ask, command, decree, and the King of Kings goes to work on our behalf because we are the harvest. The enemy knows this, he was there when the great I AM formed and created you, he was there when God blew his breath into you so that the fullness of who he is can reside in you so that you can live.Angels doesn’t have the breath of God, and the devil certainty doesn’t have it, but you do!!! That is powerful. With that same breath you can either build or tear down, bless or curse, cause victory and triumph, or cause failure and defeat, so why are you using that same breath to fight against your spouse?
When fighting against your spouse while trying to conceive, you are unknowingly destroying your harvest. A seed must be planted in the earth in order to bear fruit in harvest season. When a man plants his seed into his wife’s earthen vessel he will soon see his harvest manifested within 9 months. What will happen if you destroy the ground, that beautiful created earthen vessel? What will happen to that ground if it was not given enough attention, if it lacked love, caution, and care. It will surely wither away, die, and will never produce fruit. You may be thinking, “well what if that ground is already dead?” Keep reading and you’ll have your answer. Most men use their words when they are frustrated at their spouse if they don’t get pregnant quick enough, or if something happened in their past, or if some issue is residing in their bodies that may play a role in her not being able to conceive at that time. They use words like, “If you hadn’t gotten that abortion we would at least have had 1 baby by now, If you would have gone on a diet…If you watched what you ate…If you weren’t out prostituting back then,…If you would’ve done this, if you would’ve done that, why did you do this? Why did you do that? MEN!!!! WAKE UP!!! I understand that this can be done by the wife as well, but as the head, as the protector, as the provider, as the anchor, it should not be done by you!!!
The wicked one, the devil, the enemy knows what can hurt your spouse. When speaking certain words over our spouses it can take them to a place where they feel hopeless, exhausted, spiritually weak, it can also cause them to lose the urge to continue to do something that they were created to do. She will start to feel alone, betrayed, and grieved to her Spirit. The enemy knows our past, he knows exactly what to say to take us to the point of anger, bitterness, resentment, depression, and anything that can hinder us from receiving the promises of God by tempting us to use our words against one another. This answers the question that most of you may have asked yourself earlier saying, ”what if the ground is already dead?” At some point in your wife’s life maybe there was a word curse spoken over her when she was a child, or maybe there was a generational issue, maybe she was mentally or physically abused and it somehow manifested in her tissues. As her husband, it is your responsibility to break and destroy all legal ground that the enemy may have set up in her mind, body or her Spirit. Use your words to speak life to where death once was, use your words to encourage her, build her up, give her that assurance so that she can find refuge and confidence in the God that is within YOU!!! Jesus said it best, the words that I speak unto you are Spirit and they are life (John 6:63).
Those same words that we speak can either cause life, peace, healing, wholeness, and unspeakable joy just the same as it can tear down, destroy, crush and cause a broken and wounded Spirit. Now tell me, how can life come from that? The enemy wants to make sure you don’t bring seed into the world, he does not want God’s will to be done in the earth, he knows that without people God’s will cannot be established. This is one of his strategies, the bible says be not ignorant of the enemy’s wicked devices and using our own words against ourselves is one of them. From this day forward, let’s not only fight the good fight of faith, but let’s use our words to fight the enemy so that the Lord who is strong and mighty in battle can take those words and destroy him. Remember, God does the fighting, we do the speaking.
Prayer for Sperm Cells, Ejaculation, and blockage.
April 12th 2018 Lisa Hardin
Father God,
I bless your Holy name and I thank you that I serve a faithful,miracle working Father. I thank you that my situation is not too hard for you. You have created my body to be fruitful and to multiply. You told me that my quiver would be full and that no male would be barren! I put you in remembrance of your words right now and I place a demand on my body to be fruitful instantly!!
Every word and generational curse on my life, I command you to be broken off of me right now in the name of Jesus! I declare every negative doctor's report void in Jesus's name! I declare that my body is producing the right amount of sperm! My sperm is mobile and my sperm count it's the highest it's ever been! The quantity and quality of my sperm is in perfect working condition! Right now I come against every ejaculation problem in my body. Retrograde ejaculation I command you to leave my body now! Loose me and let me go in the name of Jesus! New sperm be created now! I declare my body free from every ejaculation disorder as of today in the mighty name of Jesus! I am healed and set free of infertility!! This is my time and my season for my wife and I to have a baby! Every delay, every blockage, every obstacle that has been on my body I command you to cease now in Jesus's name! You are no longer welcome here! Spirit of barreness be gone!!
My sperm will impregnate my wife this month in Jesus's name! She will give birth to our healthy baby /babies!
I thank you Father for my complete healing! Thank you that the blood of Jesus has healed me from every sickness in my body! I am healed! I am fruitful! My sperm is plentiful! We give you the glory for a miracle pregnancy in the name of Jesus!!!
Prayer against demonic dreams during Pregnancy
April 20th 2018 Peter Scott
Father I come to you in the name of your only begotten son Yeshua the messiah, Jesus Christ. I thank you that you have already given me the power, authority and the Dominion that I need to take full authority over any and all demonic Spirits, powers and forces that try to rob me of my Joy, my sanity, and this child that you have given me as I sleep. Spirits of darkness that comes in the midnight hour, be destroyed by the Fire of the most high God. Be destroyed by the blood of Jesus, and be destroyed by the word of God that say’s “I shall not be afraid of the terror by night nor for the arrow that fly’s by day. Surely the Lord shall deliver me from the snare of the fowler and from the noisome pestilence, he shall cover me with his feathers and under his wings of protection I shall trust.” Demonic Spirits and powers, you have NO power over me, you have NO control over me and your ungodly assignment has come to an end. I serve you an eviction notice from my mind, from my body, from my Spirit, and from my seed. I overcome you by the blood of the Lamb, and by the word of his testimony. Any Spirit that I have knowingly and unknowingly given legal right to access my temple through Lust, Lying, Cheating, masturbation, pornography, and all manner of ungodliness I come out of agreement with you NOW and all of your works in Jesus name. This day I am free. This day I rededicate my life, time, energy, and resources to you Lord Jesus. Thank you for making me whole again. Good dreams and revelations from heaven shall now be restored. Amen!!
Before you cheat you might wanna consider this...
July 7th, 2018 Peter Scott
Having thoughts of committing Adultery on your spouse? The first thing you should do is stop, think, and ask yourself one question….IS IT WORTH IT? It literally only takes 2 seconds of your time. But be very careful, because those 2 seconds will forever change the course of your life. It can either direct you to a place of fulfillment and reconciliation or to a place of utter destruction. You decide, either way, you WILL make a choice. As physical beings we always tend to look at things as they are in that moment and allow what we see to determine our next move. What you must realize is that you are a Spiritual being first, then you were given a physical body to interact in this physical world. What that means is that your Spirit has the ability to govern truth, especially with the direction, assistance, and help of the Holy Spirit. In which you should rely on FIRST because just as Jesus said to Peter, “Truly the Spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak.” Matthew Chapter 26 verse 41. That still stands true today. To have a willing Spirit signifies that one is willing to do the will of the father, and not to succumb to the will of the flesh. With that being said, let me give you a few scenarios. If you reader are contemplating on cheating on your spouse for ANY reason especially if it’s concerning infertility because she/he is struggling with conceiving, remember the covenant that you have made before God, and to one another. Remember the Joy, pleasure, and love you found in one another that moved your heart to want to COMMIT to a life time together. Sickness and health, richer or poorer, till death part you two asunder. It should also include whether or not you are able to have children. Imagine giving your heart completely to your wife, the two of you have been trying to conceive, she has a child or two from a previous relationship so the both of you know that she’s not the problem. The two of you come together to try and conceive but nothing happens. You begin to wonder….is it me? You get tested only to find out that according to the doctor’s test result you are the cause of the infertility. Your wife wants a child very bad and soon begins to resent you, she draws away from you emotionally and soon develops a mindset that she’s going to have a baby whether it’s with you or not, so she steps outside of the marriage, dishonor’s her vows, commitment, and she cheats and conceives another man’s seed. As much as this will sting, crush, bruise, and wound your Spirit, this is exactly what most men do to their wives, after wanting a child so bad they are willing to destroy their wives in order to get it.
But with that pregnancy comes more lies, more deception, disgrace, shame, and financial ruin. The book of proverbs say’s it best, it reads, “Don’t lust for her beauty.
Don’t let her coy glances seduce you.
26For a prostitute will bring you to poverty,b
but sleeping with another man’s wife will cost you your life.
27Can a man scoop a flame into his lap
and not have his clothes catch on fire?
28Can he walk on hot coals
and not blister his feet?
29So it is with the man who sleeps with another man’s wife.
He who embraces her will not go unpunished.
30Excuses might be found for a thief
who steals because he is starving.
31But if he is caught, he must pay back seven times what he stole,
even if he has to sell everything in his house.
32But the man who commits adultery is an utter fool,
for he destroys himself.
33He will be wounded and disgraced.
His shame will never be erased.
34For the woman’s jealous husband will be furious,
and he will show no mercy when he takes revenge.
35He will accept no compensation,
nor be satisfied with a payoff of any size. (Proverbs Chapter 6, verses 25-35)
This applies to whether she has a husband or not!!! If you are that man, and you are thinking of leaving your wife or cheating on her by committing adultery, remember this. Yehova El Roi is the God who sees. Nothing is hidden before him and all things are made bare. If you step out on your wife and leave her in this season of testing there will come a time when you will you see her again, only this time she will be in the arms of another man. Not only will he be embracing her, but you will witness the joy that the two of them share as he caresses her pregnant belly. You will ask yourself the question “How?” After everything we went through I thought she couldn’t have children. God will pity and have mercy on her and open her womb, by this time the Spirit of Guilt would have overtaken you and you will begin to remember the great woman that she was to you. How she labored and prayed for you through the good as well as the bad. You will
see that the woman you have left her for is nothing compared to the woman your ex wife was. One of the greatest torments in hell is Regret, the fact that you had a choice to escape that place, and the fact that you could have trusted God through it all. You will realize that it was only for a season and in due time your wife would have conceived. She would have loved you more now than she ever did, because in her time of desperate need for her husband to support, comfort, care, embrace, and love her through the pain, you were there and did not give up on her. Can you imagine that dream never becoming a reality because of the decision that you have made. Now another man is reaping where you have sowed, another man is embracing your wife and you know that she would have been a great mother to your children. She’ll then walk up to you and with tears in her eyes she will say…”I forgive you” as she turns and walks away. Deep within your heart you know that you will never find another virtuous woman like her again.
My brother, if this is the road that you’re walking or heading towards, you still have hope. There is still time for you to repent, turn around, change your mindset, change your heart posture, and love your wife through it all. Not only will she be forever grateful, but your reward will be great!!! Isn’t the children that you are believing God to have worth fighting for?
Can these dry bones live?
How to handle the feeling of being drained when believing God for the fruit of the womb.
April 13th 2020 Peter Scott
Bones- Any of the pieces of hard whitish tissue making up the skeleton in humans and other vertebrates.
"his injuries included many broken bones"
This is what we are made out of, this HARD white tissue that is built to withstand force, trauma, and blows to the human body to a certain degree. The most important and vital organs and or muscles are protected behind these bones such as the heart, lungs, liver, and our brain. What happens when these bones get broken? It leaves us vulnerable to excruciating pain caused by damage to these vital organs and muscles. As men we are often viewed as the backbone, the structure, and core of our marriage, and families. The Bible say's in the book of Job, chapter 40 verse 18 that his bones are as strong pieces of brass; his bones are like bars of iron. At times, these bones/structures gets broken, and when it does our minds (brain), emotions (heart), and our very being/breath (lungs) are left vulnerable to the playground of the enemy. For it is written ".....A broken Spirit dries the bones (Proverbs chapter 17 verse 22).
When this happens we can experience Spiritual, as well as physical death. Let me explain. Psalms chapter 6 verse 2 says have mercy upon me, O LORD; for I am weak: O LORD, heal me; for my bones are vexed. People may say, Life sucks, or my life is bad, when in actuality it's the experiences that one may encounter during their lives that make it seems as such. So what does this have to do with you, you may ask? whether you are trying to conceive, having marital issues such as lack of intimacy or not enough, constantly arguing with your spouse, financial problems, broken trust or all of the above. As men, it can cause our mind and heart, Spiritual and physical bodies to be broken, waiver, wither, an die. Death is not only in a physical literal sense. The definition of death is also classified as the permanent destruction of something. Because of ongoing situations and circumstances a person's love can die towards their spouse, as well as their desires, mind, will and emotions towards them. If you are at this state for whatever reason....Can your dry bones live?
Before I answer that, I want to remind you that sometimes because of Pride we tend to shut out our wives and certain people and would rather not open up and allow healing to flow so that we can be made whole of whatever it is/was that the enemy tried to blind us with through bitterness and unforgiveness. It's just like the Psalms that say's when I kept silence, my bones waxed old through my roaring all the day long (Psalms 32:3). Silence is dangerous, silence kills, and some medical experts say that stress and high blood pressure is the "Silent Killer." In other words, Silence is literally Death in itself. So if you want those DRY BONES to live "SPEAK"!!! Speak life, victory, and success over yourself first, then your situation, then your spouse. Speak, then prophesy to your bones/situation and say to them "Listen to me you dry bones, and hear the word of the Lord. This is what the Lord is saying to you in this season, hour and time, Look, I will cause breath (a fresh wind) to enter into you, and you shall live. I will rebuild you, I will mold you, I will reconstruct you from head to toe, from the inside out and you shall live, and you shall know that I AM THE LORD!!! In doing so you will fulfill the scripture that says in Psalms chapter 51 verse 8, " Make me to hear Joy and gladness; which the bones that thou has broken may rejoice. Speak, because your pleasant words are as a honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones. You will soon see your entire life, household, desires, spouse, circumstances and more begin to change for the better right before your eyes. So Speak and LIVE.....
